My wife was having a "club" with of her women's groups. There are 7 in the group, all mid 40's well put together. I had a opportunity to leave early and golf with a buddy of mine. I came home to change and pick up my clubs. I was shocked beyond belief. There we 5 of the grop with 8 men - all black going to town! I heard them when i came so hid and watched for awhile before being discovered! Needless to say, the group decided the sides were not even, so i was put towork (on the women's team) as the group fluffer! It was quite an experience we repeated on several occasions. Am now always inlude and welcome by the men since they tell me "I perform so well!"